Approaching a man in a bar requires confidence and sensitivity. Make sure to keep a comfortable distance and avoid coming across as aggressive or intimidating. Complimenting a man is a great way to start a conversation. Consider commenting on his clothes to show you appreciate the effort he made to look his best. Compliments should also be genuine in nature. If you want to present an item, make sure it’s appropriate and not too suggestive. A good compliment comes from a place of giving and not wanting something in return.